FORGIVENESS
II – DEALING WITH INGRATITUDE
Main
Text: Genesis 16:1-9
Memory
Verse: Genesis 16:9
Today’s lesson is a continuation of study one in
which we looked at the destructive nature of the sin of disobedience and the
need to seek forgiveness from God when we sin against Him or our fellow humans.
However, we shall focus our attention on one of the causes of sin –
ingratitude, and how to deal with its consequences.
Man’s ingratitude often results in offences
committed against other people. Such offences usually sour existing
relationships and sometimes results in enmity. To heal wounds of this nature,
it is necessary for parties involved to work towards reconciliation. The
offender must be willing to accept their fault and the offended must be willing
to forgive as necessary. This necessary step calls for true humility on the
part of both parties.
Study
Questions
- Why
do you think some people are always ungrateful to others?
- How
did Hagar show ingratitude to Sarai? Gen 16:3,4
- How
did Sarai deal with Hagar’s ingratitude? Gen 16:5,6
- How
do people express their need for forgiveness? Gen 33:1-4
- How
does God deal with broken relationships? Gen 16:9
- How
can you be reconciled to someone with whom you have a grudge?
We should be guided by the love of God to seek
after reconciliation with our fellow men. Yet it is only when we allow the love
of God to fill us that we can truly forgive those who trespass against us. On
the other hand we need humility to admit our faults against others. In this way
we prepare ourselves for forgiveness, reconciliation, and meaningful fellowship
with God and our fellow humans.